MEDIATION & CONFLICTCOACHING
High-Conflict Divorce & Co-Parenting Coaching
For when the goal post keeps changing and the Conflict just wont End.
Regain your power. Rebuild your peace. Rewire the pattern.
Start Your Journey
Who This Is For
You're experiencing:
  • You've separated but the drama continues
  • Your ex uses communication as a weapon
  • You're navigating gaslighting, blame, or legal threats
  • You want peace — not more power struggles
  • You're worried about how conflict is affecting your kids
✨ You're ready to:
  • Set clear, drama-free boundaries
  • Build nervous system resilience
  • Communicate firmly and calmly
  • Stop the cycle of reaction and regret
  • Focus on what you can control
About Me
I'm a qualified high‑conflict co‑parenting & separation coach, grounded in trauma‑informed practice, equipped with NLP (Neuro‑Linguistic Programming) tools, and backed by a legal education. My roots run deep in country life, where legacy means family, land, and stories that stretch across generations.
When I found myself in a high‑conflict co‑parenting situation — navigating shifting goal‑posts, emotional assault, and legal limbo — I realised something essential: the most important conversation isn't always the one you have across the table. It's the one you have within.
It was during that journey I discovered the missing piece in many separation narratives: the trauma of how we show up, not just what we do. And I saw too many rural families, stressed by land, legacy, children, and community, caught in cycles of fight, freeze, or flight.
That's why I created the ALCHEMY path: a values‑based, nervous‑system attuned, rural‑rooted approach to coaching, mediation, and transformation.
I help you:
  • Rediscover your voice when no one else is listening
  • Regulate your body when adrenaline is the norm
  • Navigate the legal, relational, and emotional terrain with clarity, not chaos
  • Protect your land, children, voice, and legacy — while staying true to who you are
Why Alchemy Coaching Is Different
Traditional Support
Often focuses on what the ex is doing, which is out of your control.
Alchemy Coaching
Focuses on what you can shift — in your body, your boundaries, and your beliefs.
Trauma-informed
Not textbook theory
Nervous system-led
Not talk-it-out therapy
Somatic tools
To help you stay calm under fire
Scripts & strategies
AND self-trust
How It Works
Break free from high-conflict patterns through three transformative phases.
Phase 1: Regulation & Reclaiming
Ground your nervous system. Rebuild your inner sense of safety and power. Learn tools to stop reacting and start responding.
Phase 2: Boundaries & Communication
Practice the exact language, posture, and energy that help you de-escalate and stay clear. From text responses to parenting app tone, we workshop it all.
Phase 3: Resilience & Redirection
Shift your focus from survival to thriving. Support your children emotionally. Create space for peace regardless of the other party.
Client Words
Hear from those who've walked this path
"I finally feel like I'm not crazy. This gave me my power back."
— Sarah, Queensland
"It's like couples counselling for just one person — but better."
— Jess, NSW
Ready to Start building your Toolkit?
Whether you're newly separated, trying to keep the peace and stay out of court, or deep in the court process, I just know you're just exhausted by ongoing communication breakdowns — you don't have to walk this path alone.
Take the first step toward reclaiming your peace and power.